[Mastery #1] When you finally get the woman you want, will you be able to take the pressure?... [Read More]
It took me a long time to understand what this specific night - the long dark night of the soul - actually meant. In fact this story begins in my late teens, when I almost died.... [Read More]
‘When someone plays "hard to get" I get neurotically addicted to that person, and when someone receives me and shows mutual attraction, usually I lose interest.' Here are a few ways to break out of this.... [Read More]
A Manifesto. Announcing the culmination of the Ars Amorata path.... [Read More]
Too many men have the paradigm reversed: they hope love will grow from a terrain of seduction, rather than have seduction adorn a foundation of love. We have strange conceptions about masculinity, and do stranger things still with our love.... [Read More]
The best preparation for travel is to feed the intuitive hemisphere of your brain. Lose yourself in a gormless gaze at the map. Look at the photos and read of the pilgrims who went before you. Let the country draw you in, and aim for locations that haunt your dreams... [Read More]
And there she is. This gorgeous blonde girl in a big black hat, beautifully put together, facing me, smiling and blushing. Fuck you, saboteur. I almost never knew.... [Read More]
From here on out, from this moment forward, you are writing your love note to Death. Every time you freeze, you write another line. Every time you walk down the road less travelled, you write another. The ink will not fade, and in that final embrace you’ll be asked to serenade her.... [Read More]
Not all adventures are the same, and there are a wide range of mindsets and attitudes among travelers. The more you understand the drives that fuel your wanderlust, the more you’ll design the right kind of adventure from the outset — and save yourself plenty of time, energy and money along the way.... [Read More]