A 2.5 day, personal, VIP retreat.

Sometimes all you need is pure listening and unbridled truth. To get feedback on your situation without agenda, while receiving compassion and encouragement.

This 2.5 day retreat is aimed at men in the middle of their lives; men contemplating a big transition, but who need time aside to sit in a deeper perspective, and get expert guidance as they straddle a personal precipice.

In a few select locations around the world, we will guide you through two days of walking, beauty, culture, art, good food, and ancient tradition. As we explore the hidden backstreets of this exotic locale, we will uncover the mazes and divisions in your own unconscious heart, and bring you clarity re: your next steps. 

This is where deep, philosophical life-coaching meets the good life. At this one-of-a-kind, bespoke event, you will create the next expression of your life from the vantage point of your deepest values and potential.

If you resonate with my work and want my guidance, come see us live and get it.

with Jordan Luke Collier & Adelya Terranova

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Investment: $6,500.

Maximum: 2 participants per event.

NB: this is not an approaching or seduction oriented event. Meals and accommodation not included.

Questions? Write to me at jordan@arsamorata.com, or click ‘Learn More’ to book via what’s app.

You are invited to the first monthly Salón Amorata in Santa Barbara.

With Ars Amorata Chapter Leader, Benny Bermudez.

Friday, Jan 6th from 5:30pm to 7pm.

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This Salón is an opportunity to improve your understanding of women, relationships, and yourself. Come learn what it means to live in the land of women and be a witness of beauty. You will be presented with new perspectives and an inspired conversation focused on women, dating, masculinity, authenticity and much more. If you haven’t participated in a Ars Amorata program before, you will get a taste of what a course like Essentials has to offer.

As we start this new chapter in California, we will start by hosting a monthly Salón to help build and support the Ars Amorata community in the western United States. Which means that we are here to support you, as you show up with more honesty, audacity and power in all areas of your life.

This Friday, Jan 6^th, we will partake in some opening breathwork, explore the Ars Amorata theme of the month (‘Designing Your Life’), break into small groups for some feedback exercises, and share stories amongst brothers. Come with curiosity and be ready to listen and participate.

This is a free event, all that we ask is that you bring a positive attitude, a spirit of brotherhood, and an openness to growth. A strong code of conduct will be enforced, so there is no space for drama, blame, or victim mentality. This will not be a space to rant, this will be a space to share with an objective to learn and make change.

The Amorati is a world-wide network of lovers, raconteurs and gentlemen scoundrels, and all will be made clear what it means to be a part of this brotherhood. We are not here to help you circle around your trivial problems. The Amorati is designed to transport you to the highest pinnacle of your sublime masculine potential, a challenge that only elite men are willing to face.

Any questions? Contact me through the link below.

To RSVP, simply text me here and I’ll add you to the Santa Barbara Salón What’s App Thread.

4 Days of Wild Embodiment.

Awaken Your Visceral Passion, and Unleash Your Creative, Sexual Life Force.

Spiritual practices have passed down to us brilliant techniques for clearing the mind, and opening the lotus flower of the heart. Many of us benefit each day from opening these ‘upper’ centers of our internal world.

But I believe an awakening is possible in the lower body, of men and women alike. To bring awareness to the intelligence of our guts, the power of our pelvis, and what roots us with conviction in this world. Many of us today are swimming in empathy and great ideas, yet there’s an animal kind of verve… a dangerous, wild aliveness… that we feel to be missing. It invokes jealousy and fear when we see such passion integrated in others.

Our virility is our lust for living. It fills our work with power and aliveness. Our erotic nature roams wild and free. We stop second-guessing ourselves. We feel the thrill of being alive.

What stops you from moving through life as your untrammeled, primal self? First: conditioning, taboo. We each have holding patterns—fear—that stops us from showing up in this way. Second: recognition. Most of us have numbed out the dynamic wisdom of our deep lower bodies, and we require a process to shake this energy back to life. Third: realization. That when we clarify our lust, our pleasure, our vitality and our excitement, we understand these energies not as distracting forms of sexual appetite, but full-blown spiritual qualities: gifts in and of themselves. Imagine having a throbbing, irradiating, masculine passion—to transmit into everything you do.

At this four-day retreat, I will guide you through a number of solo processes, group-work exercises, plus reflection from our team of embodied feminine women. You will receive personalized coaching and adjustment along the way. And you will have a direct experience of the sublime virtue of your virile life force.

And the biggest win is this: you will learn, for the rest of your life, how to no longer depend on other people’s energy to fill you up and get you excited. You will become the source of your very own vibrating passion.

So come join us this January in the jungles of Bali.

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Investment: $4,500.

Maximum: 6 participants per event.

NB: this is resort-based retreat event. The work will be deep and run late. Meals and accommodation are included. Be ready to get raw, and share a life-giving time in deep brotherhood.

Questions? Write to me at jordan@arsamorata.com, or click ‘Learn More’ to book this retreat via what’s app.

4 Days of Highly Personalised, Life-Changing Embodiment Work.

Heal What Blocks Access to Your Primal Passion, and Unleash Your Creative, Sexual Life Force.

A man’s erotic energy, and his sense of masculinity, is one of the most intimate aspects of his life.

To be hurt or shamed in this area of yourself—to live with a feeling of being entangled here, or not enough—is some of the worst pain that a man will ever feel.

Even if you grow up to have a decent, functional relationship, if you don’t heal the deep questions about your sexuality, you’ll often feel something is missing down below, and the vibrancy of your intimate life will suffer. Some men are too troubled by their erotic patterning—or suppression—to ever get with a woman they love.

To compensate for our blocks around our erotic life-force, we build patterns to avoid the emotions of lack and pain. Unconscious, compulsive habits such as porn addiction, falling for the wrong kind of women, half-living in a world of fantasy and projection, even exuberant sexual addiction (followed by the inability to connect when you do wish to go deeper with someone) are ways to avoid the pain caused by a fundamental disconnect with our bodies. Such habits fritter our presence and conviction in all areas of our lives: from dating to career to speaking in public. Even in our spiritual paths.

Because of the delicate nature of these challenges, some men want to do their inner work in a space of total privacy. You want pristine attention to help you untangle the issues that have dogged your intimate life, to let go of the shame, and to re-connect with your virility… in a condensed space of time.

This is an entirely bespoke 1:1 retreat, for men who want to liberate themselves from their erotic challenges for good. The pay-off? You get to bring your raw aliveness and passion back to your woman, your family, and your legacy in the world.

Your erotic energy is what fuels your charisma, your creativity, your sense of conviction, and your connection to the world. No area of your life will be unaffected by this work.

Come and join me for four days of private deep work, where, through deep embodiment practice, virtually unlimited personal coaching, and reflection from our gorgeous, feminine women, you will awaken and liberate the erotic life-force within you. This is for you if you want to claim the secret of man’s virile energy, and make a sweeping transformation in your life.

I will be waiting for you, at a luxurious retreat centre and with my support team, in the healing fields of Bali.

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Investment: $25k.

Maximum: 1 participant per event.

NB: this is a resort-based retreat event. Meals and accommodation are included. 2x post-retreat coaching calls included.

Questions? Write to me at jordan@arsamorata.com, or click ‘Learn More’ to book this retreat via what’s app.

They say that romance is in decline, that men and women are irreconcilably different. They say that St. Valentine’s is a cash-grab: jewellers, flower merchants and card dealers rub their palms together at the consumption-driven sheep of our day. Feb 14^th makes up for a seasonal sales low.

Yet all the while we sit by in cynicism. Unseen, ungifted, and unromanced.

It is very, very easy to figure out women, and figure out men. Once we get away from our disappointments and expectations, snap out of daydreams and illusions, and meet the sheer actual beauty of life. All is needed is a space to slow down, to feel, and to listen. When the context (and your leadership) is right, incredible healing, softening, heart-opening, can unfold. Even on your very first date.

I work with singles and couples—guys of 18 wanting their intimate ‘initiation’; folks in their 60s looking to start their love-lives anew. Whatever your stage in life, your history of triumph or heartbreak or hurt, we are all up against the same dastardly villain: modern life has conspired to suck the soul, to suck the romance, away from daily discourse. One has to put in an extraordinary personal effort if they are to resurrect the art of love in and around them. One must commit to being the light for others.

Back in the 1600s, when philosophers entered the ‘Enlightenment’ (and imported coffee from far overseas), they would sit together in Oxford brew rooms, and push the collective insight ever deeper. In the Belle Epoque and Lost Generation eras of Paris, the world’s greatest artists, sculptors, muses and writers would gather in the apartment of a local legend, bristle with jealousy about each other’s work, but ultimately energise the whole artistic scene.

The Salón Amorata is a refuge, in today’s atomized and cynical world, where the lovers can come together, to share what they long for, to share in their secrets, and to spread a little erotic mischief into society again. If you would like to rekindle and spread a little of that Valentine’s spirit—not just in February, but the whole year round—then you are welcome to join us at this event.

There will be an easy-going meet-and-great. And I will facilitate an authentic discussion, between men and women of all ages, around the necessary topics of love, romance, intimacy, and attraction; and about your part to play in this dance.

Dress as if for a first date. Bring your own wine.

There is no charge for this event. Water, tea, and light snacks will be provided.

RSVP via this what’s app link. I hope to see you there.

~ Jordan Luke Collier