4-hour Private Sessions

In-Person, Worldwide

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A powerful new phase of my work is arriving, and I’d like to offer you a chance to join me for a private session to explore it.

This has to do with a theme I’ve been fascinated by for years: sexual fantasies.

For some people, fantasising is an innocuous and harmless passtime, which has little to do with their real lives. For others, the content and practice of their fantasy-life would be a source of deep shame—neither their partners or greatest lovers ever find out what’s there.

What’s common to sexual fantasies—also porn, if you use external images for this inner play—is that we typically go there in a dissociated state. Our imagination, or fantasy-land, is a place we escape to. How interesting, that perhaps the richest erotic domain of our lives remains disconnected from our embodied experience.

This is the core of the new, personal work I offer here: what if you drew the content, the power, and the energy of your dissociated fantasies back into your body? Is there wisdom you can gain from the perspectives, the characters, and the dynamics you fantasise? Are there inner feelings, traumas, or unmet needs in your fantasies that you might touch into, and heal? What if you could bring the magnetic allure you have to your fantasy content… and bring it back into you, as part of your everyday presence?

Many men today state they’re lacking virility, libido, or ‘lower moving energy’. My sense is we don’t lack these things at all: we simply do other things—dissociated things—when we feel these energies. One outcome of this private session is to re-integrate your libido: to unfold some of the fixed, repetitive images that absorb your psyche, and bring their power and their imagination back home.

Would you like to know more?

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What is a Sexual Fantasy?

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Already, the term ‘sexual fantasy’ will have meanings in your mind. For the scope of our work together, we can approach erotic images, and the vitality they provoke, in a number of ways. Note: it is the place in the psyche where the image lives, that the libido is just beneath.

Do you have… or have fascination for:

• Indulgent, daydreamy, fleshed-out sexual fantasies (which you might use during masturbation, or while walking around your day-to-day)?
• A bucket-list of sexual experiences that you have not had yet, but you feel you can’t fully relax until you’ve had them?
• A favourite porn video (or situation, or actress), that hits a deep vein in you that none others quite get to?
• A peak, sexual life experience you sometimes turn to as a libido-charging memory: perhaps early memories of your relationship, or a night with the ‘one that got away’?
• Romantic daydreams with a ‘limerant’, heart-based quality (including obsessions or ‘crush’ energy)?
• Eruptive images in your day-to-day: not fantasies as such, but glimpses of women or body-parts that stoke a sudden sense of desire?
• Onlyfans or other online erotic content, that you’d like to clarify or overcome?

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When I travel to a new city, or speak at a Conference, I am typically available for one or two days to offer a private session in fantasy-work. This is very much an intimate, sacred, and transformative experience.

While I give you a couple of warm-up exercises, the meat of the session consists of two detailed conversations where we discuss, and dive into, the sexual fantasies you wish to explore. This includes the visual and sensory images of your fantasies, associated feelings, sensations and flows of energy, plus the meaning you draw from what happens. This is a process of embodied imagination: akin to dreamwork or journeywork, where we discover, and unfold, the erotic energy that is hidden, or trapped, in your subconscious. And we create space for that energy to begin to flow and find new pathways in your body. Finally, you test this integration by bringing yourself in a robust yet attuned way to a beautiful woman… who will be in the process with us.

As you might imagine, this can be vulnerable and confronting. We will work carefully through any psychological obstacles, shame, and so on, before we bring attention to your fantasy. But this work, as a whole, requires a daring leap, and a pioneer spirit.

My sessions are created in a space of non-judgment and, at-times, humour. I guarantee a sense of wonder and exploration of your fantasy, no matter the content. And, after 15 years in this work, I’ve seen and heard a range of content!

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Benefits of Unfolding Sexual Fantasies:

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This is not only for the pleasure of self-understanding, or a ‘peak experience’ energy session. When you make your hidden erotic habits conscious, you can:

• Reduce your draw to pornography,
• Understand needs, longings, and wounds: pain that became eroticised along the way,
• Integrate your sex with your heart: soften ‘creepy’ energies and a stuck, hard gaze,
• Feel more embodiment & vitality in your body,
• Deepen empathy and intuition for masculine and feminine energies,
• Normalise and understand the roots of kink, fatal, or fantastical sexual attractions,
• Unlock and integrate hidden libidinal charge that’s not had a place to channel to,
• Heal sexual behaviour (porn, daydreaming) that has become trapped or circular, that you sense drains energy away from real-life intimacy.

And the big one: simply feel more sexy, more embodied, throughout your day-to-day life.

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When, Where & Time Investment

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Liberating Sexual Presence, taken as a private session, is a 4-hour workshop, held in a safe space.

It includes:

• 2x Full, Private Fantasy-Work Sessions (approx. 60-90 minutes each)
• 1x Coaching Call, either before or after your live session, to deepen your understanding of what happens in the session
• Embodiment Training, plus essential practice videos you can take with you
• Live ‘Model Work’ (optional)—female witnessing and reflection to help you integrate your learning—during the second of our Live Sessions

Upcoming private sessions are held in Bucharest, close to the Amorati Conference.

I keep a few dates for Private Sessions throughout the year. Check the booking page for my itinerary.

Investment: $1,495

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Revolutionary Work in These Times

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There is some great reading in the world about the nature of our sexual fantasies, particularly the Nancy Friday series for women. The consensus is that male sexual fantasies are everywhere—in porn, cinema, advertising, etc.—and that women’s sexual fantasies are ignored and left to the side.

However, I believe women have been invited to understand their erotic selves through attention and inquiry and vulnerable exploration—while this depth of empathy and curiosity is never shone into the psyche of men. We are seen as predatory, but never vulnerable. We are yet to face the wild edges and complex valleys of our fantasy landscapes…. and even in the case of our more vanilla thoughts, there is no public conception on the tenderness, love, or ‘soft’ power within men—nor the sacred potential within the dark.

I sense this is a new conversation in the world of men: a conversation looking to illuminate the truth, and not the clichés, of our sexual psyches. But here, we go a step further: to truly liberate and integrate the vital, life-force energy that so many of us, for so long and out of shame and out of fear, have been hiding in the dark.

Availability for Private Sessions is limited. Go here to book.

Feel free to reach out to me with your questions.

I very much hope you’ll step in for this exploration.

~ Jordan

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