Liberating Sexual Presence

A new phase of my work has arrived, and I’d like to offer you a chance to undergo an initiation, an ordeal — that will leave any trace of sexual shame behind, and ease you into a phase of erotic freedom and presence.

We will base our work around a theme I’ve been fascinated by for years: sexual fantasies.

For some people, fantasising is an innocuous and harmless passtime, which has little to do with their real lives. For others, the content and practice of their fantasy-life would be a source of deep shame—neither their partners or greatest lovers ever find out what’s there.

What’s common to sexual fantasies—also porn, if you use external images for this inner play—is that we typically go there in a dissociated state. Our imagination, or fantasy-land, is a place we escape to. How interesting, that perhaps the richest erotic domain of our lives remains disconnected from our embodied experience.

This is the core of the work I’m looking to offer: what if we drew the content, the power, and the energy of our dissociated fantasies back into our bodies? Is there wisdom we can gain from the perspectives, the characters, and the dynamics we fantasise? Are there inner feelings, traumas, or unmet needs in our fantasies that we might touch into, and heal? What if we could bring the magnetic allure we had to our fantasy content… and bring it into us, as part of our presence?

Many men today state they’re lacking virility, libido, or ‘lower moving energy’. My sense is we don’t lack these things at all: we simply do other things—dissociated things—when we feel these energies. One outcome of this workshop is to re-integrate the libido: to unfold these fixed, repetitive images that absorb our psyches, and bring their power and their imagination back home.

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