~ Ars Amorata Presents ~
Blue Fire,
Red Strength
A 4-Month Mentoring Journey:
Embody the Confidence that Generates Attraction
...with Jordan Luke Collier
This summer, a dedicated band of Amorati will come together to explore the critical topics… that will put conviction in your heart, and fire in your soul.
This is a journey that will forever change the way you speak yourself into the world, and the invitation you make to women.
In this transformational coaching journey, we will focus on three things:
NARRATIVE, DEPTH, & THE SPIRIT OF SEDUCTION
Here are my starting assumptions:
1. The source of confidence and fire lives within your very awareness. Once you learn to tap the source, you can cultivate as much of these virtues as you need.
2. It is not only presence with women that counts. But how you embody your personal past, your ancestral past and the horizon of your future. Living a full-fledged narrative—your personal myth—brings to a man that sense of verve and mystique, while allowing a woman to get close.
3. Even you can become a wisened master of ease and delight! And this doesn’t mean becoming the stereotypical extrovert. The fastest path is to belong to a culture that brings your sense of play to the fore.
There are a thousand little details that can help you navigate the world of women.
But here, the big picture is to leverage transformative inner work to deepen the real-world experiences you create.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
Walking the Amorati Path
We’ve run high-touch, high-flame coaching groups for years, and they’re among the best-received work we do.
The ways women challenge us in realms of sex and intimacy are some of the most painful roadblocks men face. Most men sit with these questions alone, their friends never really able to help them. And it can hard to find the right guide.
Not only will this group help you see and untangle the sticking points that have defined your love-life so far, but you’ll find community and inspiration to take matters with women to new depths.
Blue Fire, Red Strength is a learning and practice hotbed where you can explore, in depth, the nature of attraction, your sexual force, the desires of your heart… and how you can be the man that makes these things happen.
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Contact me directly, pressing the button below, to apply.
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~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
Core Themes This Summer
a) Master Internal ‘Depth’
- Solve the problem of over-thinking and the inner critic
- Release old internal blocks that have stifled your expression most of your life
- Know your feelings real-time, and harness the flow of sexual energy in your body (and in your interactions)
- Go beyond the ‘emotional processing’ sort of men’s work, and cultivate a radical depth of confidence, acceptance, conviction, fire, and strength: aspects of easeful presence
b) Cultivate an Energising ‘Narrative’
- Go beyond the ‘power of now’ in your interactions, and cultivate myth and mystique
- Embrace your life and ancestral history—bring the forgotten, ignored parts of yourself to the table
- Connect in your vulnerability, while unearthing long-forgotten gifts
- Rediscover a captivating hope for the future, and deepen your reason for being: that spiritual sense of adventure that isn’t her
- When she asks questions to get to know you, bring vitality—not just ‘good answers’—to her questions
c) Amplify the ‘Spirit’ of Seduction
- Before engaging with a woman, find the place within yourself that truly wants to: reclaim desire and enjoyment of the process
- Identify as a lover… that romance artists and masculine archetypes are not icons you see in the movies, but you can be that guy wherever you live
- Develop your own style of texting, dating, and bedroom moves, that match your real self and your actual desires
- Bring mind, heart and sex together… and benefit from the Ars Amorata’s collective experience in romance and seduction
And, of course, over 4 months I will walk beside you in your pressing dating and relationship questions…
… whether you’re fresh on the scene, and want to find ease in approaching her
… whether you’re regularly dating, but want to shift things to an erotic level
… or whether you’ve been in a holding pattern for years, and need a fresh jolt of energy
The right coach at the right time can give you a huge up-leveling in your life. Zan’s teaching alone saved me a decade of head-scratching and slow, painstaking evolution.
Who do you want to be in the land of women? Let’s take the shortest route to get you there.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
timetable
summer '25
All our live coaching happens in real-time Zoom meetings.
Each call is 2,5 hours long.
Call #1: Sunday 20th April (intro)
Call #2: Sunday 4th May
Call #3: Sunday 18th May
Call #4: Sunday 8th June
Call #5: Sunday 22nd June
Call #6: Sunday 6th July
Call #7: Sunday 20th July
Call #8: Sunday 3rd August
Call #9: Sunday 17th August
Group calls take place on Sunday at 4pm Central European (Summer) Time. Recordings will be uploaded to our private portal.
Blue Fire; Red Strength will also include a group what’s app — with open access to mentoring and feedback from me, both written and audio.
Most participants in our Intensives have also created pop-up triad groups. This means you can take the practices and homework I offer, get together with brothers, and keep the conversation and support going.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
Content & Resources
Blue Fire, Red Strength is a ‘content-free’ course.
The value is in the group calls, our after-hours chats, and the deep, transformative coaching we do.
There is no curriculum as such. The material we work with is where you are now in your intimate life.
However, for those of you who haven’t done them, I will include both my Embodiment Programme (LOTM), and my Hidden Sides of Seduction course, as a signing up bonus.
You are not expected to complete either of these Masterclasses. However, as I get to know you, I tend to give 2-3 embodiment practices, or a film to study as homework, to help you gain understanding over a particular inner (or relationship) dynamic. I have the medicine on-hand to help you understand what you’ve been working through.
Plus, with almost fifteen years of writing and coaching practices to pull from, we’ll be able to support you in what you’re working through… no matter how specific and personal that seems.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
Want Extra Support Along the Way?
Every year, a handful of men reach out for some extra access and support. This is a chance to deepen your learning in a more intimate group, and simply get more coaching time.
If you want to take this to the next level, I’m offering a VIP inner circle for just four partipants. VIP participants will join the full regular course, but get four extra small-group coaching calls with me:
VIP Call #1 — Wednesday 30th April
VIP Call #2 — Wednesday 28th May
VIP Call #3 — Wednesday 2nd July
VIP Call #4 — Wednesday 30th July
These will also last for 2,5 hours, but you will get the equivalent of a full coaching session each time, given the small number of people on these calls.
You’ll also get a priority what’s app group, with faster feedback from me should you need it.
Plus, if you’re traveling to Romania for the Spring Conference, I will host a live 3-hour meeting. Date for the diary: Monday June 2nd, 2-5pm.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
are you ready to embody...
A relaxed and deep sense of inner power?
Then begin the process by clicking ‘Apply Now’ just below, and set up an intake call.
When you click ‘Apply Now’, you will be taken to a what’s app conversation with me. Simply send me that text, and I’ll get back to you within a day to schedule a 30-minute call.
The intake call is an opportunity for you to get to know me, the course, and field any questions you have about the Coaching work ahead.
I’ll also enjoy getting to know you, hearing where you are in your learning arc with women, intimacy and attraction. I’d like to understand how I’ll best be able to serve you, and whether you’ll be a good fit for the course.
If you’re on the fence and have questions, such as ‘am I ready for this?’ check out the FAQ below. However, when you click ‘Apply Now’ you will be added to a what’s app chat with me. Feel free to jump into my inbox, and ask me there.
Circling back: who would you like to be in the land of women?
And is now the time to re-claim your depth, own the full power of your narrative, and cultivate the spirit of seduction?
If so, then I look forward to speaking with you.
~ Jordan
Regular Price: $3,300
VIP Price: $5,500
Not on what’s app? Schedule your intake call here.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
FAQ
I want to join the course — but can I pay in installments?
Yes. We offer an installment plan of one payment per month, for a maximum of four months. Ask for the ‘pay in installments’ link at the end of our enrollment call.
What if I miss a call?
All sessions are recorded and uploaded to a private portal. However, try not to miss more than two live calls.
This is not an information-based masterclass that you can catch up on later, but a transformational, coaching-based container. The work that makes a difference is the work we do together, on the live call.
What is the meaning of the course title, ‘Blue Fire, Red Strength’?
From the video:
How do I know if I’m ready for this?
This is not a beginner’s group. To be a fit for Blue Fire, you will have some experience in the ‘land of women’. This might mean a relationship or two, from which you’re still extracting lessons. It might also mean that you’re dating or know some attractive women… even if you’re commonly rejected.
Some men suffer from quite deep social isolation, and it’s a big leap to find women to date from there. If that is the situation you’re in today, Blue Fire is not yet for you. This Coaching Group works best for men who are close to the land of women… close enough that it brings some challenge and pain!
Further, good applicants are men who have read a couple of self-development books, or have taken a couple of short workshops. To start the group at a good pace, I want to make sure you have some vocabulary and self-awareness to begin the inner work.
I typically welcome over 70% of applicants to the course. Some men simply need more experience before they’re ready to do an inner dive. This is not beginner coaching. However, I do not expect that you come to this course as a seasoned ladies’ man. The real level I’m looking for is whether you’re ready for a vulnerable and sincere exploration of your psyche, and of your spiritual power.
And yet, once the twelve spots are taken, they’re gone.
What Style of Coaching is Involved?
Blue Fire, Red Strength is a genuine coaching container. This means that I will be quite intent to work with you, real time, in a coaching way. This is different to asking broad, philosophical questions, telling stories, and pontificating about answers.
Instead, I will invite each member of the group to take the hot-seat, and we will work through your inner dynamics on a question real-time. This means we will explore your saboteurs, your defences and your blocks… feel and process shifting emotional landscapes… and open into meditations, archetypes, and aspects of presence. I will invite you to ‘go beyond story’ and dive into your inner world. This is coaching for ‘depth’, and we will all experience a ‘phase shift’ out of generalised conversation, and into a more vibrant world.
After each call I will offer you some homework, and an exercise to do in small groups (or with a partner). This homework will help draw out and build a more powerful ‘narrative’ for your life.
What about the discussions of seduction and women—the dating tactics?
These will be dotted throughout, and easiest to tackle on our group feed and in the what’s app! But it’s amazing… when we start doing depth and narrative work… 80% of your ‘what to do while dating’ questions will get answered from within yourself. This has you develop your sense of trust when it comes to your self-leadership: you won’t depend on a mentor’s advice to steer you through your relationship life.
What is the weekly time commitment for the course & practices?
Each live session is 2,5 hours long, and we meet every two weeks. Though there is a three-week break between two of the sessions, to accommodate the Amorati Conference. Which, as a participant, you are invited to.
On top of that, I suggest you take 10-20 minutes each day to check the group feed and the what’s app group. There are always invaluable nuggests in these ‘behind the scenes’ chats.
Finally, I deeply recommend keeping a daily journal throughout this process—even if it takes just five minutes each night before bed. For most participants I also encourage a 15-20 minute daily practice: typically an awareness-based practice involving your body.
Course time: 4-5 hours per week, on average.
How much time should I be spending with women thoughout the course, to get the most value from it?
In truth, some of the most impactful work I’ve done has been with men taking a wholescale break from the land of women. I’ve helped men process divorce, or work through a ‘vow of celibacy’, with the aim of resetting something within themselves for next time.
Most participants, though, take this course during an active moment in their dating life.
Typically, if you can have two dates a week with women you’re quite interested in, you will learn quickly. Or, if you have two different social engagements each week where there are typically one or two women you feel attracted to, there is plenty of real-life experience for us to work with.
Or, if you average an intense half-day with a wife or a lover each week, you will have enough flow of intimacy (and sticking points) with which to work.
These are guidelines. I do recommend keeping dating apps to a minimum, and I certainly don’t want you to troll bars and clubs in which you have no cultural interest. If you’re start out again fresh, I will provide you with my best tools for building a life structure that will bring you the right values-match women.
Will this Coaching Group help with me with ‘Masculine Edge’ and my Sexual Energy?
Yes. These are two of the most important topics that men ask us about in each group. Whatever your goals regarding sexual energy—libido, cultivating desire, PE, multiple orgasms, etc.—we can work with them throughout this course.
Whatever your growth edge regarding masculinity—whether that’s vulnerability, authenticity, being present in the moment, invitations, boundaries, leadership, managing expectations, of your ‘erotic shadows’—these are all topics that will be included within the context of this course. We have an incredible depth of knowledge and exercises to help you excel in your area of focus.
Can you tell me more about the brotherhood, or the general culture of feedback?
The quality of men that come to our courses, in terms of sincerity, humour, and their commitment to change, is high. And where I feel a man isn’t a fit for the culture, we will not allow him to join.
As always, the more of yourself that you share during the course, the more you’ll get back from the group. The feedback that you give each other makes up a valuable piece of this process. And in each course, I encourage every participant who has the time to create an informal ‘coaching pod’ with other members.
Typically, the resources you need for your love-life are embodied in another member of the course. Lifelong friendships have been made right throughout our history of Amorati Coaching Intensives.
Do you include live coaching with female models/assistants?
Many men want an opportunity for live feedback with women, and ask if there is a live component to our online coaching groups. Currently, our flagship live programme is the What Would Zan Do event, held 1-2 times a year in Bucharest.
WWZD is a separate programme from Blue Fire, Red Strength. If you would like to sign up for both, just let me know on our enrollment call.
However—if you sign up for one of the VIP seats in Blue Fire, you will be invited for a live session with me the day after the Bucharest Spring Conference. We will be able to do some lighter, more informal feedback practices with a couple of women there.
Is this course mainly about approaching women, dating, or long-term relationships?
My main wish for you, as a participant in Blue Fire, Red Strength, is that you deeply embody these two qualities with the women that typically make you feel the most.
Most of us have the experience of feeling loose, free, and naturally expressive… around the kind of woman we’re not so attracted to. And yet, bring the archetype of a strong woman into the room—or a highly feminine woman—and most men lose access to their greatest resources. They slow down, and play it safe. This ‘adaptation’ is automatic, and, in truth, a form of trauma response.
It doesn’t matter if you want to approach a woman in a coffee-shop or in a lounge-bar. It doesn’t matter if you’re on a first or second date, and she says something that turns the temperature up. It doesn’t matter if you’re three years into a relationship and arguments get heated over the future, or an issue you can’t quite resolve…
If you can stand in your fire, your strength, and keep an open and easy nervous system, you are going to naturally show up in ways that transmit power, clarity, and compassion. Even a sense of humour. My work with you is to help you access these states of virtue in the relationship moments that matter.
Typically, in my coaching groups, we get a mixture of men in all three situations. Often, it’s the most ‘experienced’ men who are starting out from the beginning, and the ‘young guns’ who feel in over their heads in some complex situation!
Am I ready for an ‘advanced’ coaching programme?
If you resonate with my writing and get value from my way of describing things, yes. Ideally, you will have some experience of yourself meeting women and dating—having ‘success’ and realising how that can be tricky; knowing ‘failure’ but seeing how that delivers growth.
This course is generally for men who have done at least one personal development or relating to women course before. To dive into the sort of coaching we will do together, it is crucial to have some language for understanding concepts of your inner world.
Are all applications accepted?
Not everyone will be given a place on this course. However, my marketing filters applicants pretty well, and I give the green light well over 70% of the time. When it comes to applications, I am not judging whether I like you or not! Please relax, and know that I am on your side… for the long-run. Instead, I am determining whether this coaching, and this group’s particular culture, is going to get you the result you want, in the timescale you want it in.
If I invite you to participate in the coaching group, it is because I believe that you will get the result you desire… if you put in a standard amount of effort.
Please put time and attention into preparing for our call, and show up with your questions in place. I will ask you what outcome you want as the outcome of this programme. As soon as you sign up for the call, the Coaching begins.
~ Blue Fire, Red Strength ~
The Journey Begins: April 20th, 2025
Here we are, brother.
How does all this sound to you?
Does the chance to embody your Blue Fire stir something inside?
Don’t spend any more time on the fence. Each summer of our lives contains within it the opportunity for romance. And every summer has a unique value—it’s an experience we will never get back.
If you want a deep-dive and a level-up in how you attract and connect with the women of this world, join me for our most powerful Coaching Intensive yet.
Not on what’s app? Schedule your intake call here.
